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hey, am here! Long time did't update my bloggie. Imma busying my assignments, presentation, and it's my final assignments u know! hmm, I almost spent 60% just doing my art works in one day! After coll just start doing my assignments non-stop till almost 9 p.m just bath and take my dinner, after that continue it. Woo...what a crazy life! Anyway...am enjoying this with both of my roommates and also classmates, cheers!

and yea, I forgot to intro my art work on the top. This is my sketching which I love so much! That's a poodle =) Izzit nice? I really like it!

I miss my darly so much, I hope that every weeks can be with him, yet, He's so busy, and I also. I really look forward to my holidays! X'mas and 2011 countdown party, I wanna join and have some fun!

okay, let's turn back to here, am now joining a contest, I hope you guys can vote me, I really hope can get some cash to buy a DSLR . I need it, seriously!!!

Click the link below and click LIKE to vote me if you willing.

http://www.oxy.com.my/get_details.php?e_id=2960

and yea, I hope you can do this la! As easy as abc rite?

Thank you who are voted me there.

need to sleep now! byeee~

Lunch time

I am now having my lunch in Frienster Cafe together with my coll's friends. It's a nice place bcoz here is less peoples and silent. I am rushing my assignments and presentation, so, I am berry busy recently. That's wat a college life!

My lovely hub came Ipoh yesterday and meet me. We having a sweet moment even it's a shot time. Today is 21th rite? yup...this is our 50 monthly anniversary, 1522 days ♥
ILY babe Roxz

FML, I have not going back my hometown for 3 weeks. Yet, I'll back this weeks! =) Is not so happy but got a bit moody bcoz of HIM. hmm, yea I'm small gas XO

my lunch coming soon! buai =)

你愛我還是需要我

著名的心理學家 弗格姆(E.Fromm)在他的名著(愛的藝術)中有這麼一句名言:
不成熟的愛是--< 因為我需要你 , 所以我愛你 ---- 而成熟的愛是--< 因為我愛你 , 所以我需要你 ----

一個人付出的愛是不是成熟,從他最原始的動機與表達得到驗證.

如果是基於需要(例如:因為我孤單.寂寞,所以我需要你陪我與安慰),
那麼他所說的愛其實不是真愛,而是一種條件的需索卻假冒愛的名義.

這假愛的鑑別非常容易,就是當他的需求已得到滿足\r
(例如:因為你的陪伴安慰,他已不再感到寂寞),
便會對你的存在覺得多餘與 厭煩.

所以,當你的情人打電話給你,訴說他見不著你的日子真是茶不思飯不想,
而求你趕過去給他看看的時候,你且慢高興.因為說穿了,
他只是要你去給他下飯罷了!他只是需要你,那裡是愛你呢!

而真正的愛是無條件的自由付出。
所謂需要，其實只是一種邀請：
他需要一個人和他共同完成這樁愛的事實，所以他對你提出邀請了。

而這樣的真愛也很容易鑑別\r
就是當你對他的邀請婉拒甚至只是沈吟的時，
他立刻就能尊重你的意願而停步，而不會死追活纏，非要你答應才甘心。

何以故？
只因他並不是荏弱的人格需要你去支持，
而是秉其人格的獨立堅強，願邀你分享他生命的美好時光。

因此我們說愛的第一要義就是自由。

這一方面是指愛的付出應當基於自由意志，而別無潛在的陰暗動機。
一方面則是指對對方人格自由的充分尊重，而不在付出的愛上面附帶有渴想。

期望，要求乃至逼迫的壓力。
而真的相愛是一種愉悅甜美的經驗，而不是互相剝削的債務。
但許多情人的相處卻總是從無私的愉悅始，而以沈重的負擔終。

情人總忍不住想用對方的束縛來保障自己的安全，
卻不知只會帶來更多的煩憂。
而一個願意對方完全自由的人，又有誰捨得離棄？
只是道理雖然簡明，當事到臨頭，總是不容易做到罷了!!!!

有人問：『你為什麼喜歡一個人？』

我只能夠說出為什麼不喜歡一個人，卻說不出為什麼喜歡個人。

喜歡一個人，是一種感覺。
不喜歡一個人，卻是事實。

事實容易解釋，感覺卻難以言喻。
愛情是忽然有一個人，我們覺得一見如故，
很想靠近他，我們的內分泌忽然起了翻天覆地的變化，很想擁抱他。
以後，無論快樂或哀愁，我們也想不起當初為什麼愛他。

只有當我們不愛一個人時，才會找出不愛他的原因，
因為我們開始挑剔。

任何一個人，只要你去挑剔，一定找得出缺點。
越去挑剔，缺點越多，我們便可以說出為什麼不喜他。

我們想買一件衣服時，即使發現他有小小瑕疵，
埋怨幾句，也肯將就，因為只有這一件， 而且我們太喜歡它了，瑕不掩瑜嘛！

假使我們根本不想買那件衣服，它的小小瑕疵便是致命傷。
我們更會努力地找出其他缺點，譬如質料不夠挺，
顏色太鮮豔，向售貨員證實，我們不是隨便來逛逛的，
我有認真考慮過的呀！

分手可以有很多原因，結合卻只有一個原因，

原因就是： 不需要原因

拼！

離開哥家 自個兒搬出來和朋友住 都有兩個星期了 對啊 我知道他是很寂寞的 但是沒辦法囖 忍耐下吧 也許她很快會回來的了 =)

這幾天 感覺自己好拼 放學回到家 休息沒到十分鐘就開始做功課 直到凌晨一兩點 你也可以說我趕功課 因為如果我不計劃好如何完成其他的功課 我的三十張素描是沒辦法預期完成 還有presentation 和 newsletter 好多功課吔 有時候覺得好累 但仔細想想 路是我自己選的 我就要堅持到底囖 嗯 最近好缺錢 好想賺外快 但是不想抛頭露面 啊啊啊 世上沒那麼大的蚧蝲隨街跳 還是乖乖呆在家省錢好了

自我激勵 愛拼才會贏！

最近

我好像都荒廢了這裡 對不起 我好忙 功課好多 都沒時間來這 突然覺得無言詞窮了 嗯 最近生活都不錯 一切都很好 親情 愛情 友情 都噢給 好喜歡現在的一切 雖然功課好多 當做對自己的磨練吧 我很享受當我完成我的功課 那一種喜悅和成就感 最近都比較節省了 沒亂花錢了 謝謝我的寶貝嘚嘚帶我去超級市場賣了食物給我 讓我肚子餓時候可以吃 謝謝媽媽自個兒駕車上來拿東西給我吃 給我用 還給錢我花 謝謝爸爸還會打電話給我關心 雖然我真的不怎麼會表達對你們的愛意 我還是講話很大聲 哎 這個壞習慣我會學著改掉 最後 我愛我現在的一切

cheer me up!

嗯，我已經搬家了。昨天已經搬去和同學一起住，和他們一起蠻不錯的。可惜現在家裡還沒有的上網，所以就來了麥當勞。來了這裡，看了一些東西。

網友們，原來把字體寫成Verdana，把照片放中間，寫英文，就是抄暨某網絡美女的部落格喔！

嗯，本小姐知道了=) 謝謝某人的留言 , ooOoo

最近不懂是不是犯小人，楣！但是我會接受挑戰 =)

Body Modifications

I would like to share some horrible things with you guys! The Most Bizarre Body Modifications here that I sudden found.

Eyeball Tattoo

Corneal tattooing is not only possible, but it has been known and done now for over 2,000 years — it became almost commonplace in the late 19th century and into the 20th century to correct defects such as corneal scarring and leucomas. These days, it is done less often because contact lenses are very effective at covering these defects, and prosthetic technology is also more accessible. However, not everyone can wear contact lenses, and not everyone wants their eyeball popped out even if it is blind; hence cosmetic tattooing of the eye.

Scarification

Scarification is the creative and artistic application of scars in a controlled manner to achieve an aesthetically or spiritually pleasing result. In the process of body scarification, scars are formed by cutting the skin. Even though many people hold that scarification is no more painful than tattooing, it is somehow more "intense" to most of them.

3D-Art Implant

A 3D-Art implant is any object implanted fully under the skin for the purpose of affecting a sculptural change of the surface. The "invention" and popularization of implants as 3D-Art is credited primarily to Steve Haworth. Implants can be stretched just like piercings. A good example of this are horn implants—they start as smaller implants, and are then taken out when healed and replaced with slightly larger ones. This process is repeated to achieve the final size. There are some risks of irritation to the skin above the implant if this process is pushed too fast, as with all stretching.

Corset Piercings

One of the newest trends in body modification comes in the form of corset piercings. They are a series of surface piercings arranged up the back in two vertical columns. The piercing is located in the spot where the eyelets would be if one was wearing a corset. It is a symmetrical piercing with an equal number of holes on each side. As few as four holes can be used (two on each side) up to as many as the expanse of skin will allow.

Branding

The Human Branding is, perhaps, the most painful of all body modifications. In full-scale branding, the iron is heated hot enough and applied long enough that the resulting wound is a third degree burn, which destroys the nerve. These third-degree burns never regain sensitivity. It will make a silver scarred area in the shape of the third degree burn, due to destruction of the entire dermis layer of the skin. The surrounding skin will eventually fill in areas that haven’t been severely damaged, which takes years.

Body Suspension

Body suspension is the act of suspending the human body via temporary piercings made just before the suspension process. The body is then raised either partially or completely from the ground by especially modified fishing hooks.

Tongue bifurcation

One of the newest body modifications to hit the scene is tongue splitting, or tongue bifurcation. The process involves literally cutting the tongue in half directly down the center. Once the tongue is split it is possible to move both sections independently of one another.

Pointy Ears

New York plastic surgoen Dr. Lajos Nagy created a surgical procedure to make human ears pointed, like a mythological creature. According to the doc, "ears becoming pointed as a result of plastic surgery not only enhance the attractiveness of the face, but also improve the experience of listening to music."

Do you dare to do so? XD

It's goin up

hey peeps! hmm...actually my mood is going up and down recently. I'll drop lil tears if am emo. I know it'll not be longer. I bless myself getting better =) don't worry bout me. I am okay.

I really love and enjoy together with my coll's friends. We hang out for sing k and lunch today.

We guys having fun!

I got my student card. It's a lil bit puffy.

hmm, nothing else.

and IMYR♥

最近的心情就是糟透了 都把眼睛給哭腫了 又怎樣 這是我自己找來的 不能怨人 有時候我真的很羡慕他們 幹嗎別人拍拖 父母都很贊同 就算以前不贊同的 現在他們都能和對方父母一起逛街吃飯 我呢 4年多了 得到什麽 我知道 我很失敗 我不知道自己在搞什麽 我不會讓我的家人接受他 反而更不喜歡他 甚至自己被拖下水 我很無能 我很無奈 別人都很羡慕我和他這麼久的愛情長跑 但是我想告訴你們 不必 因為在我們的愛情跑道上有很多荊刺 陷阱 怪獸 甚至魔鬼 這麼困難重重的跑道上 有時候會讓我覺得很累 不止是我 他也一樣 有時候我問我自己 幹嗎家人不接受 我們還要在一起 這樣很辛苦 這個問題 我也重複問了他好多次 但是唯一我佩服我自己的 是我還在堅持 也許某些人都會認為我很傻 很笨 但是我想問你 你會爲了你愛的人做傻事嗎 太理智的愛情 是什麽 那還算是愛情嗎

我想說 因為某件事 我知道我錯了 對不起 但是也挽回不了 我會少回來的 我想挽回我一點點的面子

sharing

Hey readers! am now at my hometown.

Actually I already back yesterday just for Mooncake Festival. Went to my darly home for dinner and had a great time with his family too. But the Kimi sis text me and we hang out together with Sisi and Lily. What a nice moment when we meet our ex-schoolmates and spent our time together!

Yet, I've to back Ipoh for studied this afternoon bcoz my class start at 2 p.m. My dad fetched me there and back after my class for 2 hours.

yea am so tired now. Doing assignment right now and I just take a break to blogging, haha! Sketching and searching some interior design for assignment.

I found that there are lots of interesting ID.

These are for children bedroom ID.

Emily, this suit you. Your beloved Sponge Bob!

These are Theme Bedroom ID.

you can click below and see more =)

http://blog.searchome.net/news/post/49

These abit horrible.

you can see more through here.

http://allness.pixnet.net/blog/post/23379379

and yea, I'll back to my secondary shool to watch my teacher's perform Nobody, fyl.

gonna continue my assignment, bye!